CLIMBING OUT OF THE DEPTHS OF SHALLOW LIVING

Love is one of the greatest sensations of intensity known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a partner with whom they are suitable or appropriate together. Many will have children only to feel a love that evaded them in romantic relations with a mate. For some, romantic relationships can be one of the most important elements in their lives, providing a source of profound satisfaction. The ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not hard-wired into us at birth. There is a great deal of proof to suggest that the ability to form a stable relationship begins in childhood, in a child's earliest experiences with a family member or paid helper who regularly looks after them providing their needs for food, care, safety, stimulation, and social contact. Others would be God's fatherly concern for humankind, a strong affection for another arising out of kinship, or personal ties such as matern

“If you listen with the Spirit, you will find your heart softened, your faith strengthened, and your capacity to love the Lord increased."  Thanks to the marvel of technology, the separation of time and of vast distances disappears.  " For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them.”   We were born with the instruments required to make correct choices in life.  There is the  right  of choice, the  responsibility  of choice, and the  results  of choice.  As followers of Jesus Christ we will always have the  right  to choose. With the right to choose comes responsibility. There is no middle ground in selecting which path to follow.  Our Lord knows this but the enemy knows it as well.  In hopes of claiming our souls, the methods of the enemy are marked by skill in deception .  Our choices in life depend on where we want to go.  When we are not certain of our direction, it doesn't matter which path we take.  However,

Instead of just pretending to be married, having one mate exclusively must become the new norm if today's families are going to prove superior to “anything goes” single living.  Men and women not cheating on those they claim to love should be popular and not an imaginary scenario. For those who may have never had a monogamous committed relationship, when they finally get into one, some continue to live as if disappointment is imminent and they fail to adapt or conform themselves to new or different conditions.  Although we are previously broken, our new vows and devoted spouse can help us to find our worth. When a good partner is laid down at our feet, this symbolizes that the union is brought into a submissive humbleness.

Marriage is a serious matter. Many do not realize the seriousness of this life event until they are faced with a pivotal situation which both parties hold a conflicting opinion regarding its solution. A cardinal rule when there is disharmony is to form a critical opinion of the central cause of the problem. However, that is difficult to do when one of the people involved have a reluctance to find and call attention to the responsibility of the problem's source. There is a first and second order of importance in a marriage and that is usually open to interpretation as to who or what is given priority. With God being first and everyone else jockeying for the second position. Either way, once there are opposing positions in a disagreement, one person is left feeling unimportant to the integral strategy or plan of action if their point is disregarded. As having or showing an exaggerated opinion of their importance to the marriage. When the two people of significance to the marri

Every group of religious congregations has its own organization and a distinctive faith of religion. There are so many of these distinct congregations that a man can always find at least one that suits him in his manner of living. For the man who desires many wives, is prone to violence, racist separatism, or seeks to serve the evil one, there is a congregation that strengthens his belief with confidence in that concept, theory, or opinion. But as with powers beyond earth such as the moon, sun, and other planets that use gravitational pull to attract other bodies, so are we to each other. However, it is not gravity that directs us toward one another, it is our fundamental beliefs. A man or woman marries because they see in one another an appreciation or regard for truth, people's feelings, courteous manner, and/or strong faith in what they consider or hold as true. One cannot begin to change in form or giving a false appearance of the doctrine, or code of beliefs, that both accept

We as human beings sometimes lack the ability to understand the significance of our behavior. For us to undergo an extraordinary development, God allows a series of actions and activities in our life required to create in us a gradual change. To rise to our God given potential, troubles and hurdles are fragments of God's plan to assist us in coming into the destiny He intended for our life. Learning to tolerate unfavorable conditions causes a transformation in us to expand our capacity as a bearer of fruit.

When making a point use considerate dialogue without belittling the other or hurting their feelings. We must learn to communicate with our spouse instead of speaking at them or shutting them out emotionally. When possible, show interest in their friends, and allow your spouse to spend time with their upright and trusty associates. Be specific when praising them for the intellectual gifts that you see in them. When possible, do activities together. It's important to express our need for our life-partner and let them know that they are treasured. Silently hold them when they need reassuring. When they are excited, let your passionate actions show that you share in their joy. Whatever they value as important, show interest in those things. We should allow our spouse to impart knowledge to us without the need of becoming defensive. Variations in scheduling, daily routines or family matters should not be done without discussing them first. Speak truth in gentleness and lo

Some are born in possession of qualities, especially mental qualities, to sense the slightest deception in others. This innate sensory is often reactive to recognizable stimuli from those we encounter daily. Imbued with this spirit of discernment increases the probability of exposing those we love when they've secretly betrayed us thereby placing the side of our more noble nature in conflict with actuality. When we make our observations known to those who matter, it's important they recognize that their disingenuous conduct and cover-up tactics are no match for this powerful trait of judgment. Us who trust our inherent ability will part-ways with people that place too much confidence in giving false or misleading information to cause us to believe an untruth.