SECURE YOUR OWN OXYGEN FIRST

Marriage is a serious matter. Many do not realize the seriousness of this life event until they are faced with a pivotal situation which both parties hold a conflicting opinion regarding its solution. A cardinal rule when there is disharmony is to form a critical opinion of the central cause of the problem. However, that is difficult to do when one of the people involved have a reluctance to find and call attention to the responsibility of the problem's source. There is a first and second order of importance in a marriage and that is usually open to interpretation as to who or what is given priority. With God being first and everyone else jockeying for the second position. Either way, once there are opposing positions in a disagreement, one person is left feeling unimportant to the integral strategy or plan of action if their point is disregarded. As having or showing an exaggerated opinion of their importance to the marriage. When the two people of significance to the marriage cannot agree on what is the problem at hand, there can be no resolution.