NO LIGHT NEEDED TO SEE THROUGH YOU

To generate suspicion is akin to committing a distrustful action.  Often we believe that an omission, falsehood, or denial makes everything alright. When in fact, this produces an atmosphere of uncertainty which over time can lead to the breakdown of a relationship. Our partner may never know what is definite fact, but they will know the energy that is transmitted when their trust is being placed at jeopardy.  To be a habitual liar creates just as much tension in a relationship than being caught red handed in the act of cheating. If we have to tell lies or leave out details of our daily lives when communicating with those we claim to love, maybe reconsideration is in order if we should consider taking on a serious relationship.  There must be a desire to shed the habits and patterns of a previous way of life. Honesty and transparency are essential elements of a relationship.  When we constantly lie or omit things to paint a picture of perfection, what we are actually doing is chipping away at the trust a little at a time.  Let there be no surprise when the trust is gone and our partner informs us of their inability to continue on the path of unpredictability.