PLAUSIBLE BUT BASED ON PRETENSE

When in a marital union a person whose behavior deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior can fall into a routine way of functioning that is contrary in nature. It is not completely clear what comes first, the justification of an opposing direction from a spouse intimately, or a resistance to advice, recommendations, or counsel which makes them markedly different from an accepted norm in all forms of interaction. Not realizing their showing an inclination to dispute or disagree on most subjects. One can be given to debate, discussion, or quarreling for its own sake and often employing arguments not in accordance with fact, reality or actuality. These tendencies are of a complexed mental state involving beliefs, feelings, values, and dispositions to act in certain ways. Many find themselves in and out of multiple relationships for failure to self evaluate.